God’s best creature in this world is MOM ………… he had provided her strong shoulders that r ready to handle workload as well in the form of gentle arms that provide us comfort at times of need ………. that inner strength that encourages her to fight during those critical moments when she delivers a baby ………… the promising attitude when she is always ready forgetting her own interest to support u always when everyone h’d left u apart …………. The maturity with which she shapes our life by providing us values which helps us to tackle every situation in life ……… the sensitivity that made her understand our feelings when we r not feeling comfortable ………. The great tolerance power that always keeps her calm even when anyone hurt her ……..and the unconditional love that shields us from distracting situations ………So in all a perfect assembly of qualities in the form of a creature called ‘The Mother ‘

Shez always there for u ……recall all those moments as…..giving u the name by which the world knows u ….. encouraging u to speak the first word ……… the time u start walking on both legs from that childish walking …….. those sleepless nights that u hv made her to spent despite her exhaustive day work ………. teaching u all the daily activities …….. taking an initiative to build u’r career by choosing the best school …….... those yummy tiffin packing in the morning …….. constant interaction with u’r teachers to analyze n improve u’r performance ……….. those regular homeworks n satisfying u’r all anxities n queries ……….. making u imagine the world by drawing , painting ………….. n the same moments go on for yrs to shape u …….. to make u strong enough to compete with this world

Mother’s day …… hmmmmmmm I don’t think that we need to allocate a separate day all in a yr for realizing the importance of a lady who is 24*7 engaged in upbringing us without any profit motive …….. When we share such an awesome relationship with a person , everyday should be made memorable for her ………..

I know that we all r busy in various phases of our life ……. establishing ourselves socially, economically … that we forget to express our feelings to her ……. But realizing the importance of relationship we all must try to find some time from your busy schedule to express u’r feelings coz that some words really play a vital role for her life ………..

It’s quite ironic that I h’d seen many a children not valuing their mom coz she is doing only household chores n not earning money as dad…….. but it’s high time to make them realize that this job is much-2 more tougher n valuable that any of the other jobs n it’s her efforts only that r making u capable of earning ………….

Shez really special for all our life. So love u’r mother and keep her Smiling always :)

Family Matters!!!!

Family is one of the most important aspects of a person’s life. Our upbringing define us , and our family environment became a part of our identity.In this respect it remains of utmost importance to initiate, cultivate, maintain, and prioritize family relationships.

In our life's journey we come across some amazing people . There will be offcourse u'r best friends the one u make in u'r neihbourhood and with whom u h'd learned cycling....... and then the one u make in senior school with whom u h'd spent hours chatting over with. And then u become too cool and hv gang of best friends with whom u spend all the time

But the sad truth is dat all these people , no matter how wonderful , must part ways with us some day. It may be sooner or later but it is inevitable.........

But the one constant all this while ..... which provided u the background is u'r family and will always be there for u. Though u may haven't appreciated it before .......

We all take family for granted , don't we ? we always place them secondary to our friends .....we assume dat it is their duty to all that they do for us, only appreciating it when all those for whom we ignore our family left us......

As a child you find comfort in hanging out with your parents. As a teenager you find identity when you step away from parents and illustrate your independence. As a young adult as you are now independent, you learn to appreciate them so much more.

You find yourself loving their mannerisms so much more. You thank them for the things they provided for you as a child, and you look forward to one day being that same source of strength they were to you in your young age, to them in their old age. It is a note that resonates deep within my heart strings.

No matter how hard you try, you can never extricate yourself from your family. They are integral to who you are, and the harder you try to distance yourself from them, the closer they become. I would say, why fight that feeling?

Campus Fever

Campus Placement the most awaited event of every student's life . It gives a new direction to u'r life , a way filled with new spirits and enthusiasm . Being a student of S.G.S.I.T.S , indore a very reputed engineering college of M.P , we were having more opportunities than others and everyone was ready to give his/her best . We all had worked upon our weaknesses.

Finally the month of June-2007 ( zero day ) came where we were allowed to sit in as many companies as we want and grasp as much opportunities . The first company that came in our college was Wipro ( 31.5.07) and it proved to be a mass recruiter coz it had selected 110 students . Then after 3 days(4.6.07) the company known for its values and quality training i.e Infosys came and after a thorough logical test and HR interview it had employed 72 students of our college . Then on 5.6.07 the company with gr88 Brand came i.e Accenture and it was proven to be my destination .

It was one of the most memorable days of my life . I can't expess that feelings in words when they called my name and h'd given me the offer letter . But on the other hand there were many of our friends who were still struggling hard so we weren't that happy .

Then many other companies came like CSC,Impetus,Amdocs ,Persisent,Atos Origin Patni , Tata elxi , Geometric Softwares , Deloitte , Kanbay , Convergys ,Infobeans etc.......and had recruited many of the bright candidates .

And finally the dream company of everyone came which doesn't needs any intro i.e Microsoft ( 28.6.0.7) and after a critical test and techie interview it had chosen the 6 cream students .

Campus fever was a very learning experience for each one of us . It had taught us many realities of life like it's not only the hard work that matters but the smart work is also important .Many of my deserving friends despite all hard efforts are still waiting for that golden day .Though i know that they will get what they deserve coz still many companies are going to come till our completion of final yr. I had never relied on luck but after seeing the experience of all , i started believing that luck is one of the most imp factor that contributes to u'r success .

The most imp thing i gained from my experience was that everyone is having his/her own day and at that day all the things will work in their favour i.e a kind of positive aura is created around u and u will achieve u'r goals .

Motivational Poem

Salutation to the dawn

Look to this day!
for it is the life, the very life of life ,
In its brief course
Lies all the varieties &
Realities of your existence,
The bliss of growth ,
The glory of Action ,
The splendor of beauty,
For yesterday is a dream &
tomorrow is only a vision
But today well lived makes,
Yesterday a dream of happiness &
and every tomorrow a vision of hope ,
Look well therefore for this day !
Such is a salutation to the dawn.

Adopt Altruism

There are so many sufferings among people in our country that made me think that how much privileged I am and what should be done on my side to help them up to the maximum possible . I can help only a few such people that surrounds me but for complete / maximum eradication of the problem an awareness among all is needed about the pitiful conditions that they are facing .Here is an attempt from my side so that everyone who reads this blog will help these downtrodden people to overcome their conditions . I am having memorable childhood but on the contrary here is a story of three girls aged just 6,7 and 11 yrs had been far away from their home hardworking as domestic help near the capital. They were beaten,
tortured and had nowhere to go. "They ( persons who had employed her ) used to hit me all the time. Sometimes with belts or just with their hands," said Santoshi, victim.Finally, six-year-old Sujata, seven-year-old Santoshi and 11-year-old Sita, were rescued from a living hell called the Gupta household in Faridabad's IP Colony by activists of Shaktivahini.

Long Nightmare

But their problem didn't end there. After their rescue on November 19, they were kept at the Faridabad Sector 31 police station till the 23rd, since there was no other place to keep them.Even the Nari Niketan in Karnal didn't have room for these three little girls. Finally they were brought to the Childline office in Gurgaon on Wednesday evening.The problem in accommodating them in a children's home in the capital is that the FIR was lodged in Haryana."The biggest problem is that there is only one home, Nari Niketan. How many girls can be accommodated there?

Unsympathetic Attitude

A case under the Juvenile Justice Act was lodged against Manish and Ritu Gupta, but after a day in lockup, they were out on bail.It's ironical that the accused were immediately let off while the girls had to stay in the police station for the next five days because they had nowhere to go.The administration's attitude was also confrontational and hostile.As for the rescued kids, tears came easily each time Santoshi had to relive their nightmare. It's a miracle they have survived two-and-a-half years of constant abuse, beatings and torturous labourBut now it's an uncertain future that is staring them straight in the face .

No real plan

The government seems to have no real plan of action for the children they suggest will be rescued. In fact, they don't even have an approximate estimate for how many children will suddenly be in their care. "When the ban would come into force we would come to know of the magnitude of the problem.” Some officials say the children will be kept in shelters till they're sent back home to their families. But experts say that is hardly a solution.

Children know that they're being exploited but a badly paid job is better than no job, they argue.
The days of life when we had played with TOYS and DOLLS these children are struggling hard to earn their livelihood and despite of that they are suffering from PHYSICAL and MENTAL torture . I never understand why GOD is filling the pockets of richer and not giving these children sufficient meal for a day .

So , finally I hope that everyone who read this blog will help these innocent children upto their maximum . I am not talking about Financial aid only we can also help them by saving them from such cruel antisocial elements who are degrading their life , by providing them enough love and support , by teaching them etc,etc . As we are privileged ones we should make our life worthy .